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I was very good friends with someone at the AG church I used to go to. She was a recovering alcholic. (though she said she was a delivered alcoholic). But anyways, a friend of mine whop also went to that church, went out for a few drinks one night. The alcoholic friend of mine found out about it, when some of the other people from church told her. Apparently they were in the restaurant side of the bar while we of course were in the bar. And in this place you had to walk into the bar to get to the restroom. Someone walked by us and saw us. So anyways when my alcoholic friend heard about it. She invited us to meet her at another restaurant a few days later all the time leading us to beleive that we going to have a meal and hang out. Instaed she started yelling at us about how we are not from God, because we drank and should not even be drinking in the first place because she has a problem with alcohol. And that we were sinning and should have thought about her before we went to a bar. And that we by drinking were temping her to go to a bar right that minute and she had to pray to God for strength. As she is yelling and screaming at us and making a seen in the parking lot, partons of the restaurant were coming and going and looking at her in her tyraid. It was quite a seen. She looked like a whack job and they probably thought she was.

To this day, I don't understand why she had to make my business and make it hers. I drink and do not have a problem with alcohol. Nor do I know why the people that saw us had to tell her. That was my business that I was there in the bar. Not theirs. I guess it gave them fodder for their gossip. I dont know. I understand she is an alcoholic but I dont think my drinking should make her upset. If I were her I would have let it go and moved on with my life.
I can see someone who is an alcoholic being tempted by eating a place that serves alcohol as well. But being tempted by a friend who was drinking in a place you were not even at I don't see her point. This incident is one of the reasons we are no longer friends. I was not godly enough for her and too much in the world. This person also told me I was ungodly for listening to hard rock and heavy metal music, cussing and watching certain programs on tv. And because I never went to wednesday night church and missed some sundays to go flea marketing.