DISCLAIMER: if you have a problem with homosexuality don't read or respond to this post. I need support, not judgement.
I went more into detail in the GLBT private forum, because of obvious reasons. This situation isn't strictly a gay one though.
My partner has recently informed me that she plans on returning to pentecost. This would mean that we (as a same sex couple) could not be together any longer. If this was a casual relationship it wouldn't be too hard to say F*&^* you and walk away...but the problem is that I'm madly in love with her...we were planning on spending the rest of our lives together (or atleast I was, and she told me that she was).
She says that she hadn't thought of religion when she commited to me. I'm not sure whether to believe this or not. I'm so hurt & confused.
I'm very much an atheist, and cannot for the life of me understand why she would want to throw away what we have for that bullsh*t!
She is a second parent to my child...we are a family of three!
She is under the impression (although I have NO idea why) that we all wouldn't have to physically split...it's just me & her could not be a couple anymore...it would be roommate/friend only. I informed her that it would be entirely too painful for me to stay in the same house with her and not be able to touch her again.
Her mom invited her to this women's conference called, "Help me to heal". SHE WENT! She is gone to it now!
I'm a mess!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do? Do I preserve my heart (if that's possible), or do I wait patiently hoping to change her mind???
I went more into detail in the GLBT private forum, because of obvious reasons. This situation isn't strictly a gay one though.
My partner has recently informed me that she plans on returning to pentecost. This would mean that we (as a same sex couple) could not be together any longer. If this was a casual relationship it wouldn't be too hard to say F*&^* you and walk away...but the problem is that I'm madly in love with her...we were planning on spending the rest of our lives together (or atleast I was, and she told me that she was).
She says that she hadn't thought of religion when she commited to me. I'm not sure whether to believe this or not. I'm so hurt & confused.
I'm very much an atheist, and cannot for the life of me understand why she would want to throw away what we have for that bullsh*t!
She is a second parent to my child...we are a family of three!
She is under the impression (although I have NO idea why) that we all wouldn't have to physically split...it's just me & her could not be a couple anymore...it would be roommate/friend only. I informed her that it would be entirely too painful for me to stay in the same house with her and not be able to touch her again.
Her mom invited her to this women's conference called, "Help me to heal". SHE WENT! She is gone to it now!
I'm a mess!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do? Do I preserve my heart (if that's possible), or do I wait patiently hoping to change her mind???
