Bea...ignore the troll. You are being very brave and I am trying to think of what to suggest to help you along. Blackdog, I think Jonihhhi has got to removed. A couple of "his/her" posts have made me think that there is something very weird going on with this person. Plus the avatar picture just reeks. If Bea needs our support, then I really don't think that you can do anything else.