The "all or nothing" is so true... and it does tie into this conversation. I USED to listen to Limbaugh and he actually said it out loud- if you aren't number 1, you're nothing. (I stopped listening to him when I kept catching him misrepresenting Native American issues, and then later realized just how dishonest and untrustworthy he really is!)

So people complain and cry because they're number two- and forget that there are people who can't even leave the starting gate.