tandc90- that is also a deliberate way to insult and put down another person. He was deliberately telling your husband that he wasn't considered quite human and certainly not an adult or worthy of respect.

I think that one of the weirder things was the "Let Go and Let God" thing- they said it at the oddest moments. And then the guest "I used to be in the Mafia" speaker (a woman) who brought a big folding knife to church and flipped it open during the sermon.

She SAID that she had learned that while being involved in organized crime. Now, I'm pretty sure that she was just another Mike Warnke. After all, it's easy to learn how to flip open a folding knife- especially a lockblade.