Lutherius wrote:
If this is an institutional "hit," I would be willing to call an AFP conference call to get some ideas together on what to do about this.

I suspect that's exactly what it is. It seems to HAVE to be "Immediately" and in my experience...when my ex-wife acted that way about something there was usually some outside pressure pushing her to do whatever. Not that I was ever able to stop her or really cared enough to try...but I definitely think the church itself has something to do with this. It sucks.

So sorry L4T, I'd suggest finding somebody these @ssholes don't have their hooks into, but hey that's just what I think.