Looking4truth wrote:
Blackdog- That's INSANE that she wanted to sleep in YOUR bed! it sounds similar though, the other person wanting to be a part of your life, but while fulfilling their "religious needs" at the same time...and those "religious needs" of theirs destroying you. And they can't seem to see it either.
I reached a conclusion about my ex sometime back, by most any "normal" person's standard her life was already destroyed and often continually destroyed again by her own "issues" most of which seem to stem directly or indirectly from Pentecostalism...so for her it was not destroying me, or my life, it was simply attempting to put me on a level she could relate to.

Somebody called Dogemperor who I've seen post here once or twice but who's more active a couple other places I go likened Pentecostalism to a pit full of zombies, if they see you trying to get out of the pit, conciously or not they will try to pull you back in. I kinda get a feeling that whatever (for lack of a better word) 'bad spirits' are in all this are trying to get to you or suck you back in...just don't forget to be true to yourself and stay strong...Pentes are like sharks if they smell blood in the water they come on even stronger until you (in the spiritual, to use a bit o' Pente-speak) end up on the menu.