Blackdog- That's INSANE that she wanted to sleep in YOUR bed! it sounds similar though, the other person wanting to be a part of your life, but while fulfilling their "religious needs" at the same time...and those "religious needs" of theirs destroying you. And they can't seem to see it either.

Luth, that makes a lot of sense. Now, if I can put my emotions aside long enough to lay out a conversation like that! That will be the question...

But yes...I would get a lot further with her if I could carefully state my questions instead of throwing them at her.

Pascal wus clever kitteh hu wus laik: "I am not knoin if teh Ceiling Cat is reel." Oh noes! But Pascal was thinkin an thinkin, an he wus laik "If I is beleefin in teh Ceiling Cat, and he is reel, I will be gettin cheezburger. But if I has no beleefin in teh Ceiling Cat, and he is reel, I will be getting pwned. If there no Ceiling Cat, no matter anywai. I think I is beleefin in teh Ceiling Cat."