Looking4truth wrote:
She is a hard person to get to be 110% honest (not meaning she lies, she doesn't...not intentionally--she just...like you said...acts like a typical pentecostal in presenting half-truths and also deluding herself in order to delude others, etc)....it has always been a struggle with us...I have to sweat blood just about in order to get her to open up to me...completely.
Yes, I know exactly what you mean with this because I have been there, mostly all with the same person.

I think I'm gonna go now...I'm sorry for ya...but the reason I know how painful the spot your in is, I've been there (granted, in a hetero relationship) It's hard. As much as I loved my ex, the hooks were in too deep, and I just got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore. The worse things got, the more crazy her beliefs became. I had to let her go for my own sanity.
I occasionally hear from my ex. She's still the same, in a miserable situation, and cannot or will not see that the beliefs she had (or had I'm not sure which it is/was yesterday) are causing the problem. She called me yesterday, still with the abusive man, brought him back with her from TN even though several months ago the last time we spoke I told her absolutely do not do this...she was originally moving back to her mama's to get away from him, now they'll both be even more miserable and he'll probably hit her more not less.

Anyway, I'll be back later, keep your chin up you deserve a lot better then this.