IMO Guilt is a virtue and should only begin internally from our own senses, as our own guide to being humane & treating society as we would like to be treated. People (ministers, religion, partners, families) who abuse this virtue should be ignored and we should realize that Guilt is for our own edification, for only us to use in our daily lives. No one has to submit to Guilt in order to live a life(style) that pleases others, only submit to the life we feel that we should live, Guilt-free from others expectations.