Oh, and BTW the reason my ex and I split up was because she was emotionally and verbally abusive, and she spent a lot of money we didn't have (credit cards) and spent any cash she happened to get her hands on...to the point where we couldn't pay bills, etc.

Most of it went for stupid sh*t, clothes, eating out, karaoke nights at bars, etc. and of course, she always tithed...weather or not we HAD the 10%.

Eventually, things almost escalated to a physical confrontation, I left rather than end up being extremely domestically violent and went to my mom's. That's when the harrassment that culminated in stalking a couple months later started. I got back on my feet, moved into the dorms at school and started another job in the meantime.

It ended up being a really screwed up couple years of my life. Badly enough, me and the ex (almost) became friends after the divorce was final...though we never really did have a relationship anybody could consider "normal."

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