I for one can relate to this story.......how someone can place themselves above everyone else just because they are " in church".....

my mom had been sick for along time, my dad hadn't been going to church as much....well the pastor maybe went to visit only one time a year and only because he was in the area.....NOW the moment that Mom dies they are all up in our business and want to do all they can to show their support.....welln its too late for that now ain't it.... they just put together something for a funeral service and didn't ask the kids what we wanted and well the pastor should have just kept his mouth shut because he acts 2:38ed the thing to death.....the songs were torture and not the songs mom wanted at her funeral..... very few of mom's "Pentecostal" family showed us (dad, brother, and I) real sympathy or acted like we were there....and as soon as the graveside services were over it was like we didn't exist anymore......all my dad's family made sure to come and hug my brother and I to express there grief for our loss ....the Pennys all stayed away like we had the plague......that hurt me more than the passing of my Mom......I just lost my mom and all they could think about was getting into the church to get something to eat........you don't have to guess who was eating before my family and I even left the grave side....I couldn't leave that place fast enough.....
your story as horrable as it is, is becomming the norm for that bunch of a$$ holes.....( Apox you can edit if you want)......if you aren't one of them you don't exist.....sound biblical don't it......well it rains on the just and the unjust alike.....and its getting cloudy......

your story, for me, just confirms just how UNGODLY those people are.......and how our stories need to be told to the world to let them know just how they really are.......


there is more to this story but I am to angry to write it yet