Thanks for all your responses.
I know for sure I will be there for her. It's a catch 22. I know she came to me because I'm not in church anymore and she knew I wouldn't judge her, but then, because I'm not in church her mom won't let me around her. I'll just have to work around that one.
I think I'll talk to my mom, her profession is in law, and ask her for some advice on who I can bring this to.
I know teenage years are rough anyway, then add hellfire and damnation to it and there is almost no hope.
These crazy people are making me angrier all the time! When kids are cutting themselves and no one will do anything about it except pray out the demons!!!