There is so much bitterness and hatred on this site I had to throw this in. Who does the hatred hurt them or you.
Are we concerned about being right at the expense of happiness?
What is happiness any way?
I used to feel that happiness meant feeling good but have come to the conclusion that peace of mind may be a
Many of us in here have had bad experiences with our former belief system and find ourselves consumed by
bitterness and even hatred.
We were a part of something that obsessed on being right to avoid eternal punishment and some so called
preachers/pastors assured us that we needed to follow their teachings based on the Bible to be right, but what
We were supposed to be right but not necessarily happy.
So now that we discovered that we were duped we still aren’t happy because we still are plagued by teachings
that harmed us.
Personally, I lived in my personal hell for many years and my life was a shambles.
I became obsessed with getting rid of the feeling of dread and fear.
Unfortunately these are things that get planted deep into our psyches and aren’t dismissed easily and in some
cases can be mentally fatal.
As hard as it is to believe, some folks are happy to be lead around and they trust their leaders and will never
leave the church.
However for people like us those groups are poisonous.
We can choose to be free of the negative emotions and bitterness through a concerted effort.
It has taken me many years of obsessive searching and trying everything I could find to finally be free.
It is a personal journey each person must take to find peace of mind.
Living with all the negativity is damaging mentally, physically and emotionally.
I am no expert but have years of experience and success in my quest for happiness.
It can be done so don’t give up and release those negative thoughts when they enter your mind.
Just notice when one comes in and say “I release you” over and over.
Eventually it is easy to do. The hardest part is to notice when you have a negative thought.
Give it a try and you will be amazed at how much power you have to control your thinking.
I made it work for me and it is free.