Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/topic/8219/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html en-us Copyright 2006, Yuku feeds@yuku.com (FeedMaster) webmaster@yuku.com (WebMaster) Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:59:51 GMT Thu, 16 Jul 2009 02:21:10 GMT Yuku Feeds 1.0 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 Yuku http://static.yuku.com//feed/bypass/images/button-yuku.png http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/topic/8219/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html Yuku - free hosted forums and profiles 88 31 {pics-1.1 "http://www.icra.org/ratingsv02.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (nz 1 vz 1 lz 1 oz 1 cz 1 ) "http://www.rsac.org/ratingsv01.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (n 0 s 0 v 0 l 0 )) Search Search Domain q http://yuku.com/search/direct/ <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79791/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79791 Caro - these "friendly" people....aren't they usually spending their energy being "friendly" because they want to sell you something? Even if that something is the "idea" that they wish to create in their own mind that they are popular? Your identity was formed so you didn't need that....so that's just maturity isn't it? ]]> feeds@yuku.com (charliedog) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79791 Thu, 16 Jul 2009 02:21:10 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79738/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79738
So I asked a few classmates what they thought of her assessment, and they all said, "Of course you are......" I was honestly shocked, because I never considered myself... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (CaroG87) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79738 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:09:49 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79722/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79722 feeds@yuku.com (brainy) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79722 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 09:12:47 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79696/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79696 BRAINY - I (and most women I know) would LOVE to be married to a man with such a gentlemanly way, and I think you opening your wife's car door is excellent. Come over and teach the English guys some of your manners. PLEASE!!

My friend is married to a lawyer who farts with great triumph and satisfaction every night on the sofa. Sure - it's funny if you read it, but imagine having to LIVE with it...?
... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (charliedog) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79696 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 04:48:16 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79687/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79687
i think church leaders know this effect is taking place and any time they want to do a guilt induction they preach the need for involvement and thus a lot of people feel guilty and frustrated, just like they want you. ]]> feeds@yuku.com (so new) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79687 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 12:20:33 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79682/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79682 Anyone here ever been accused of being arrogant due to your introverted/introspective personality?

All my life! I give off a confident air that people think is arrogance. I think this "confidence" is simply that I don't generally respond to social pressure, and I also have a lot of confidence in my own opinions (only because I analyze things a lot, not because I think I'm so very smart). Personally, I think I'm a big doofus and... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (tandc90) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79682 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 10:21:03 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79679/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79679
I don't remember the topic now... but it was something near and dear to AoG type hearts. I think it was creationism. ]]> feeds@yuku.com (walkawayarchie) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79679 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:56:34 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79677/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79677 feeds@yuku.com (brainy) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79677 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:46:55 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79652/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79652
Then another test administrator explained it to me this way: "Don't think of it so much as extrovert-introvert in social terms, but in perspective. I can easily see where you are more introspective as opposed to introverted." That made... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (CaroG87) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79652 Sun, 12 Jul 2009 11:08:10 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79651/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79651 marla191792 wrote:
Probably because my views are in the minority in most of the socializing situations I am in.
Tim mentioned the above as a reason that he kinda 'clams up' sometimes, and several other people here also mentioned boredom with mundane conversation. I wonder if it is simple boredom or actually more induced boredom due to a perceived inability to express what we want to say?... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (walkawayarchie) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79651 Sun, 12 Jul 2009 09:14:33 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79648/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79648
Maybe I am, lol. ]]> feeds@yuku.com (tandc90) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79648 Sun, 12 Jul 2009 08:03:30 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79647/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79647
But, I am a solid introvert. My inner world is much more interesting than most conversations, and I get bored really fast if we are not discussing new worlds and new ideas.

I can hold an interesting conversation for 30 minutes to an hour if the conversation is interesting - and during this time I probably APPEAR as an extrovert from the passion with which I engage the... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Lutherius) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79647 Sun, 12 Jul 2009 06:38:31 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79644/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79644
A lot of people confuse shyness with introversion. Most of the time I'm introverted but not really shy, which makes it fairly obvious that I don't care if I'm a part or not. That makes... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (tandc90) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79644 Sun, 12 Jul 2009 05:59:31 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79634/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79634 I have a problem with this also. I am totally wiped out and embarrassed when someone says,"why are you so quiet" . I have no recovery and usually have to leave at that point. ]]> feeds@yuku.com (so new) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79634 Sat, 11 Jul 2009 16:39:11 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79632/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79632 Probably because my views are in the minority in most of the socializing situations I am in. Tim mentioned the above as a reason that he kinda 'clams up' sometimes, and several other people here also mentioned boredom with mundane conversation. I wonder if it is simple boredom or actually more induced boredom due to a perceived inability to express what we want to say?

I don't know if I'm making sense. After thinking about it, I... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (marla191792) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79632 Sat, 11 Jul 2009 16:11:44 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79576/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79576
James ]]> feeds@yuku.com (stubborn envelope) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79576 Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:20:24 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79554/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79554 feeds@yuku.com (Lutherius) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79554 Sat, 04 Jul 2009 12:43:37 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79548/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79548 feeds@yuku.com (stubborn envelope) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79548 Sat, 04 Jul 2009 10:33:51 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79507/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79507 feeds@yuku.com (CaroG87) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79507 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:03:22 GMT <![CDATA[ Re: Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/reply/79484/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html#reply-79484 feeds@yuku.com (brainy) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/sreply/79484 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 23:44:56 GMT <![CDATA[ Do you have trouble sorting out social situations? ]]> http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/topic/8219/t/Do-you-have-trouble-sorting-out-social-situations-.html
I don't know whether it is the Pente background, the abuse that I grew up with, just my personality, or all of the above. I just struggle with it a lot. Especially, I am terrified of women, which, since I am one, seems rather odd. I'm not AGAINST women by... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (marla191792) http://expentecostalforums.yuku.com/topic/8219 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:59:51 GMT